Planning For Your Safety

More than just a checklist

Meet with an Advocate First

Deciding whether to stay with your partner or to leave can be extremely emotional, complex, and dangerous.  You don't have to do it alone.

We suggest you meet with one of our confidential Domestic Violence Support Advocates (in person, over the phone, or on zoom) to talk through your options and to plan for your safety and the safety of your family. 

Leaving isn't as simple as preparing a checklist

Thinking about how best to prepare yourself and your family can be a lot to process on your own. Below are just a few of the different areas of concern that you may want to consider thinking about as you prepare for your safety. 

Our confidential advocates are here to walk along side you as you become clear about how you want to move forward. 

Call 509-326-2255 to get connected to an advocate. 

Identification

___ Drivers license
___ Children’s birth certificates
___ Your birth certificate
___ Social security cards
___ School and medical records

Financial

___ Money and/or credit cards
___ Bankbooks
___ Checkbooks
___ Safety deposit box key

Legal Papers

___ Your protection order
___ Lease, rental agreement, house deed, etc
___ Car registration & insurance papers
___ Work permits/Green Card/Visa
___ Passport
___ Divorce papers
___ Custody papers
___ Immunization records

Other

___ House and car keys
___ Medications for you and your children
___ Jewelry
___ Address book
___ Phone card
___ Pictures
___ Children’s small/favorite toys
___ Toiletries/diapers
___ Change of clothing for you and your children

Blog

Dec 13, 2024 Dec 13 @ 5:00 pm

A Collaborative Victory for Community Safety: How YWCA Spokane’s Domestic Violence Task Force Is Saving Lives

At YWCA Spokane, our commitment to empowering survivors and creating a safer community is brought to life through the work of the Spokane Regional Domestic Violence Task Force. This dynamic coalition brings together YWCA Spokane legal advocates, the Spokane Police…

Dec 3, 2024 Dec 13 @ 5:00 pm

Mission Moment – Youth Therapy

Healing Together For families who have experienced domestic violence, therapeutic support can provide some relief from experiences of stress, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). YWCA Spokane offers a specialized therapy program for youth 7-18 years old who have second…

Nov 4, 2024 Dec 13 @ 5:00 pm

2024 DVAM Recap

A Month of Awareness Throughout October, more than 40 banners were spread across downtown busy streets and key landmarks lit up purple in honor of survivors. Unquenchable Hope was proudly displayed as part of DVAM and National Arts & Humanity Month….

Events

Oct 29, 2024 Dec 14 @ 1:30 pm - 4:00 pm

2024 Youth Self-Care Summit

Dec 10, 2024 Jan 14, 2025 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am

DV 101 Training: Recognize. Respond. Refer.

Join YWCA Spokane for this important free, virtual training on January 14th at 10:00am. Learn more about intimate partner domestic violence, how to help a friend, and about YWCA Spokane’s free and confidential services.

Dec 9, 2024 Jan 20, 2025 @ 11:00 am - 3:00 pm

2025 Martin Luther King Jr. Rally & March

January 20, 2025 Spokane Convention Center  Join us! Open to the community, feel free to march with YWCA. Details to come.