Planning For Your Safety

More than just a checklist

Meet with an Advocate First

Deciding whether to stay with your partner or to leave can be extremely emotional, complex, and dangerous.  You don't have to do it alone.

We suggest you meet with one of our confidential Domestic Violence Support Advocates (in person, over the phone, or on zoom) to talk through your options and to plan for your safety and the safety of your family. 

Leaving isn't as simple as preparing a checklist

Thinking about how best to prepare yourself and your family can be a lot to process on your own. Below are just a few of the different areas of concern that you may want to consider thinking about as you prepare for your safety. 

Our confidential advocates are here to walk along side you as you become clear about how you want to move forward. 

Call 509-326-2255 to get connected to an advocate. 

Identification

___ Drivers license
___ Children’s birth certificates
___ Your birth certificate
___ Social security cards
___ School and medical records

Financial

___ Money and/or credit cards
___ Bankbooks
___ Checkbooks
___ Safety deposit box key

Legal Papers

___ Your protection order
___ Lease, rental agreement, house deed, etc
___ Car registration & insurance papers
___ Work permits/Green Card/Visa
___ Passport
___ Divorce papers
___ Custody papers
___ Immunization records

Other

___ House and car keys
___ Medications for you and your children
___ Jewelry
___ Address book
___ Phone card
___ Pictures
___ Children’s small/favorite toys
___ Toiletries/diapers
___ Change of clothing for you and your children

Blog

Nov 3, 2025 Nov 13 @ 11:38 pm

DVAM 2025: Spokane Shows Up for Survivors

Each year, Domestic Violence Action Month (DVAM) provides an opportunity to raise awareness in Spokane about the realities of relationship violence and to spark action toward building a community free from abuse.

Oct 1, 2025 Nov 13 @ 11:38 pm

Understanding & Addressing Victim Blaming – A Mission Moment

Blaming the victim of domestic violence often happens unintentionally, but can be incredibly harmful. Learn the impact and how to better support survivors.

Sep 30, 2025 Nov 13 @ 11:38 pm

Threads of Healing: How Poetry is Helping Survivors and our Community

When Teresa Dixon first began facilitating The Thread writing workshop, she wanted to create a space where survivors of domestic violence could explore their stories through creativity rather than through testimony. “Writing offers another way. It allows survivors to express…

Events

Jun 11, 2025 Nov 17 @ 2:00 pm - 3:30 pm

DV 201 Training: Learning In Action

Join YWCA Spokane for this important sequel, virtual training on November 17th at 2:00pm. Learn more about the unique barriers and challenges survivors navigate on a daily basis and talk through how you might help a survivor.

May 2, 2025 Nov 19 @ 1:00 pm - 2:30 pm

The Thread – A Writing Workshop Series for Survivors – This Nov with Sharma Shields

A writing workshop series for survivors of domestic violence happening once a month on a Wednesday. This month with Sharma Shields.

Oct 9, 2025 Nov 20 @ 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm

Navigating the Courts: What to Expect & How to Prepare

Join YWCA Spokane for a free workshop designed to help survivors of intimate partner domestic violence feel more confident and prepared when interacting with the legal system.