Join The GoodGuys And Take A Stand Against Domestic Violence

A growing movement of men in Spokane working to prevent domestic violence.  

Co-founders and long-time YWCA supporters, Doug Kelley of Avista and Manny Hochheimer of Numerica Credit Union, joined together with YWCA Spokane to create a collaborative effort of support called the GoodGuys.

“Our GoodGuys group started with an idea in 2015, when I was challenged to put together a men’s table for the YWCA’s largest fundraiser of the year, the Women of Achievement awards luncheon,” says Kelley. “As I learned more about how domestic violence is impacting our community and the critical work of YWCA Spokane, I knew we had to do more.”

“We want the community to know that the region recognizes and supports YWCA Spokane’s efforts to end domestic violence”, expresses Hochheimer. “It was a powerful show of support for a detrimental issue in our community. We invite men to join the GoodGuys and make a clear, strong, public statement that domestic violence is not ok and will not be accepted.”

“This is a community epidemic,” states Kelley. “According to the Spokane Regional Health District, 1 in 3 women and 1 in 10 men in Spokane will be impacted by domestic violence. We can no longer be silent about this prevalent issue. This is not a women’s issue, but a community issue. Something that we must all work together to bring an end to.”

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Goodguys Registration AT women of achievement 2019

By hosting a GoodGuys table or joining as a guest, you are helping to create lasting change in the lives of the women and children who seek our services when impacted by domestic violence, homelessness, and unemployment. Our GoodGuys’ presence at these awards is incredibly meaningful to the community and to our agency; we hope you will join us!

GoodGuys Table Captain Flyer

Registering for a GoodGuys table can be as easy as 1,2,3:
  1. Sign up to host a GoodGuys table: Learn more about hosting a table at the Luncheon here.
  2. Invite your friends/co-workers: Invite 9-10 friends/coworkers in your network to join you at this year’s awards celebration. Let them know their attendance provides crucial support for YWCA’s programs and services. Additional resources to support your success will be provided below as we move closer to the event.
  3. Have your guests register online: Direct each of your guests to our online registration form with a request to provide your name as their table host. This will ensure your guests sit at the same table with you. Please share any verbal commitments you receive with us at to help us prepare for a successful event.

GoodGuys WoA Table Registration

Thank you to THE GOODGUYS for hosting Renowned Speaker, Jackson Katz

“It is anti-male to not be doing this work.”- Dr. Jackson Katz

Many thanks to the GoodGuys for hosting “What Does it Mean to be a Strong Man?: Exploring Men’s Leadership in Preventing Violence Against Women” at Gonzaga’s Hemmingson Center on Feb 11th. Jackson Katz explored the growing global movement of men working to promote gender equality and prevent gender violence.

Katz is internationally renowned for his pioneering scholarship and activism on issues of gender, race, and violence. He has long been a major figure and thought leader in the growing global movement of men working to promote gender equality and prevent gender violence. We are thankful to our GoodGuys, especially co-chairs Doug Kelley and Manny Hochheimer, for bringing such an incredible leader to Spokane!

Read the recap here

GoodGuys Receive YWCA Spokane’s Shining Star Award

Due to successfully achieving their goal of filling 10 tables with GoodGuys at YWCA’s 2016 luncheon, Kelley and Hochheimer were awarded YWCA’s 2017 Shining Star Award. This prestigious annual acknowledgment was given by YWCA staff members who recognized the importance of the GoodGuys’ impact on domestic violence in Spokane.


If you would like to learn more about the GoodGuys movement, contact GoodGuys Co-Founders Manny Hochheimer at 509-462-6294 | or Doug Kelley at 509-495-4925 |, or YWCA Spokane Chief Philanthropy Officer Dana Morris Lee at 509-789-9304 |

The GOODGUYS believe domestic violence is a community issue that requires a community effort. It will take a commitment from ALL of us to make a difference.  

Thank you to the GoodGuys Committee!

Doug Kelley, Co-Chair
Manny Hochheimer, Co-Chair
Brian Schaeffer
Charlie Wolff
Chris Wherity
Dana K. Morris Lee
Ed S. Renouard
Greg Larratt
Greg Lipsker
Jim Carollo
Jim Sheehan
Jamie Patrick
Joe Perella
John A. Sowers
Jonathan Kadyk
Justin Yung Hurtubise
Lance Kissler
Lars Gilberts
Maciej Kosinski
Jordan Ferguson
Michael Larson
Morgan Colburn
Ozzie Knezovich
Regina Malveaux
Ronald Hauenstein
Ryan Oelrich
Steve Plewman
Todd S. Woodard
Tommy Williams


As a part of domestic violence awareness, supporters of the movement wear purple as a visual stand against domestic violence. Why purple? In the United States military, the Purple Heart is presented to those who have been wounded while serving. For survivors of domestic violence, who may also be wounded both physically and emotionally, the color is meant to be a symbol of peace, courage, survival, honor, and dedication to ending violence. 

Each October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month (now Action Month) is celebrated. It was first observed in 1981 as a national day of unity. It was established by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence to ensure that victims know help is out there and that they are not alone.

 Go purple in October


Nearly 75 percent of Americans personally know someone who has been a victim of domestic violence. In Washington State, the fatality report now shows 68 domestic violence-related deaths in 2015.  We must bring greater awareness to this problem and eliminate the stigma that dissuades victims from seeking assistance.

We look forward to growing this community of Spokane men who will no longer stand for domestic violence. Share the GoodGuys movement with your friends, co-workers, and family and help us end domestic violence!

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