Join The Good Guys And Take A Stand Against Domestic Violence



A group of Spokane men who have coalesced to help YWCA Spokane combat domestic violence in our community.

Recipients of Shining Star Award for Good Guys Efforts

Co-founders and long-time YWCA supporters, Doug Kelley of Avista and Manny Hochheimer of Numerica Credit Union, joined together with the YWCA to create a collaborative effort of support called the Good Guys. “Our Good Guys group started with an idea in 2015, when I was challenged to put together a men’s table for the YWCA’s largest fundraiser of the year, the Women of Achievement awards luncheon,” says Kelley. “As I learned more about how domestic violence is impacting our community and the criticality of the YWCA’s work, I knew we had to do more.”

Due to successfully achieving their goal of filling 10 tables with Good Guys at YWCA’s 2016 luncheon, Kelley and Hochheimer were awarded YWCA’s 2017 Shining Star Award. This prestigious annual acknowledgement was given by YWCA staff members who recognized the importance of the Good Guys’ impact on domestic violence in Spokane.

“We want the community to know that the region recognizes and supports the YWCA Spokane’s efforts to end domestic violence”, expresses Hochheimer. “It was a powerful show of support for a detrimental issue in our community.”

The Good Guys Are At It Again!

The Good Guys have been working hard again this year to recruit 100 men to fill 10 tables at YWCA’s 36th annual awards luncheon, which will be held at the Davenport Grand on October 4th, 2018 from 11:30am – 1:30pm. “We invite men to join the Good Guys and make a clear, strong, public statement that domestic violence is not ok and will not be accepted,” shares Hochheimer.

The proof is in the statistics,” states Kelley. “This is a community epidemic; 1 in 3 women and 1 in 7 men in Spokane will be impacted by domestic violence. We can no longer be silent about this prevalent issue. This is not a women’s issue, but a community issue. Something that we must all work together to bring an end to.”


At YWCA’s 36th annual Women of Achievement luncheon, Doug and Manny are making another call out to Spokane men to join them at this year’s awards celebration.  To become a Good Guys Table Captain, and take the lead on filling a table of 10 men register here. To register today as a Good Guy guest at YWCA’s 2017 awards luncheon, purchase your ticket here and write “Good Guys” in the comment field.

Register As Good Guys Table Captain

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If you would like to learn more about the Good Guys movement, contact Manny Hochheimer at 509-462-6294 | or Doug Kelley at 509-495-4925 |

One-in-three women and one-in-seven men in Spokane are affected by domestic violence. The GOOD GUYS believe domestic violence is a community issue that requires a community effort. It will take a commitment from ALL of us to make a difference.


Enjoy this light-hearted video features Hochheimer and Kelley, along with other community leaders, indicating that they “are in” as a supporter of the YWCA and its work to raise awareness about domestic violence. By joining the Good Guys, you will know your commitment helped to make a huge impact in the lives of thousands of women, children, and families in our community.


Contact the Good Guys today to learn more about this movement and how you can get involved.

Doug Kelley,,  509.495.4925
Manny Hochheimer, 509.462.6294
Dana Morris,, 509.789.9304


As a part of domestic violence awareness, supporters of the movement wear purple as a visual stand against domestic violence. Why purple? In the United States military, the Purple Heart is presented to those who have been wounded while serving. For survivors of domestic violence, who may also be wounded both physically and emotionally, the color is meant to be a symbol of peace, courage, survival, honor and dedication to ending violence. 

Each October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month (now Action Month) is celebrated. It was first observed in 1981 as a national day of unity. It was established by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence to ensure that victims know help is out there and that they are not alone.

 Go purple this october


Nearly 75 percent of Americans personally know someone who has been a victim of domestic violence. In Washington State, the fatality report now shows 68 domestic violence related deaths in 2015.  We must bring greater awareness to this problem and eliminate the stigma that dissuades victims from seeking assistance.

We look forward to growing this community of Spokane men who will no longer stand for domestic violence. Share the Good Guys movement with your friends, co-workers, and family and help us end domestic violence!