Control de poder

Domestic Violence is about holding Power & Control over another Person

¿Qué es la violencia doméstica de pareja?

Intimate partner domestic violence is a pattern of controlling behavior used to maintain power in a relationship by one partner over the other. A perpetrator may use a range of abusive behaviors to control their partner. We use the Power & Control wheel to help identify these behaviors.

Power & Control Tactics Examples of domestic violence in relationships

Dominance

Economic Abuse

Spiritual Abuse

Cultural Abuse

Immigration Status

Abuso Digital

Coercion and Threats

Intimidation

Emotional Abuse

Aislamiento

Minimizing, Denying, and Blaming

Using Children

Healthy Relationships Wheel

What makes a relationship healthy?

YWCA Spokane has provided a Healthy Relationship Wheel to help convey what a healthy relationship could include. One based on respect, trust, and nonviolence.

Comparing and contrasting the Healthy Relationship wheel with the Power & Control Wheel can help look at the changes needed for someone to move from being abusive to embracing a non-violent partnership.

For instance, instead of using coercion and threats, a partner resolves conflict or a disagreement based on negotiation and fairness.

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Nov 7, 2025 Ene 12, 2026 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am

Formación DV 101: Reconocer. Responder. Referirse.

Join YWCA Spokane for this important free, virtual training on January 12th at 10:00am. Learn more about intimate partner domestic violence, how to help a friend, and about YWCA Spokane’s free and confidential services.

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Formación DV 101: Reconocer. Responder. Referirse.

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Nov 24, 2025 Feb 9, 2026 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am

Formación DV 101: Reconocer. Responder. Referirse.

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