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In February, we launched First Step Fridays, a weekly legal clinic with 30-minute consultations designed to support survivors of intimate partner domestic violence. This clinic marks an expansion of our legal services and a return to supporting survivors with family law needs like divorce and parenting plans. This new clinic was created as a direct response to what we heard from survivors: greater access to pathways toward safety.

We intentionally designed the clinic to reduce barriers. There are no appointments, no waitlists, and no referrals required. Those seeking support with a domestic violence protection order, divorce, or parenting plan now have a reliable, free resource available when they are ready. After checking in, individuals wait in a secure location before meeting with a staff member who takes the time to understand their situation and explore what support might look like for them.

First Step Fridays is exactly what its name suggests: a first step. For many, it becomes the foundation for rebuilding their lives, rediscovering themselves, and moving toward safety and freedom.

Navigating the legal system is confusing and overwhelming under the best of circumstances. For those experiencing intimate partner domestic violence, it can feel nearly impossible. In more than half of the local protection order and family law cases, individuals go to court without support or legal representation. Our trained staff are working to change that. We help amplify voices that are often silenced and come alongside each person as they find their way forward. We are here to listen, support, and advocate.

Listening to Understand

Many who come through our doors have previously been told that their experience was not serious enough, not provable, or not worth pursuing. Some have shared their stories with people they trusted, only to be minimized, dismissed, or not believed. We begin from a different place.

When a survivor meets with one of our staff, we start by believing them. Our role is to listen, ask thoughtful questions, and better understand their experience and what they need moving forward. We recognize each person as the expert in their own life.

By listening deeply, we help survivors feel heard, which can create a shift within them. Suddenly, the weight of figuring it out alone becomes lighter. We meet survivors where they are, without judgement and without assumptions because that is where meaningful support begins.

Providing Support

Support looks different for every individual. Some need guidance on which forms to file or how to complete them. Others need reassurance, resources, or simply the confidence to take the next step.

One individual came to us after fleeing her relationship with almost nothing, including nothing appropriate to wear to court. Our staff put together a care package with complete outfits and hygiene supplies so she could show up at court feeling prepared and with dignity.

From helping someone locate the right paperwork to ensuring they feel confident walking into the courtroom, we respond to each person’s unique needs in the moment. This is not a one-size-fits-all approach. Our services are rooted in empowerment, equipping individuals with the tools and support they need to move forward on their own terms.

Advocating in Court

Imagine representing yourself in court while facing your abuser’s attorney. Or beginning a legal process without knowing whether a protection order is the right step, with no one to turn to for guidance. That is the reality many survivors face and is exactly why First Step Fridays exist.

Our advocates are trained to support survivors both inside and outside the courtroom. With an advocate by their side, individuals have someone to help them understand the process, offer encouragement, and remind them clearly and consistently: your voice matters and you do not have to do this alone.

YWCA Spokane is Here for You

Safety and justice should never depend on whether someone knows the right forms to file or has the resources to prepare for court. First Step Fridays is one way we are working to ensure individuals can access the support they need and deserve.

At YWCA Spokane, we offer an array of free services to help survivors address barriers to safety and stability. Whether someone is just beginning to consider their options or is ready to take legal action, we are here and will continue to come alongside those impacted by intimate partner violence.

If you or someone you know is impacted by intimate partner domestic violence, confidential advocates are available 24/7 through our helpline. Call 509-326-2255, email help@ywcaspokane.org, or text 509-220-3725.

Learn more about First Step Fridays at ywcaspokane.org/firststepfridays.